Cybersex - The Good, The Bad, and the Ugly

I have two experiences with net relationships that I'd like to share. The first was most of our worst nightmare... began online, moved to the phone..when I began feeling uncomfortable in the relationship ( a lot of what he'd told me hadn't added up) and tried to break it off.. things started getting ugly.
I didn't hear from him in a few weeks, and just as I began to feel that things were getting back to normal.. he called to tell me he had cancer. Being an investor (or so he said) he told me he had set up a portfolio in my name that I would get when/if he passed away. I told him I thought he was joking, that he couldn't possibly have done something like that without my social security number.
A chill went up my spine when he recited my social security number to me. I hung up the phone and debated calling the police. About a week later, he called me at work. (I'm an air-personality at a radio station) he called me while I was on the air, knowing full well that way he wouldn't have to get a receptionist who he knew would never put him thru to me. He told me he "knew" I was in love with him.. that he could hear it in my voice.
I asked him how that was possible, since he was hundreds of miles away. He turned up his radio.. and it was my station!! He was somewhere in MY TOWN! I refused his request to see him, hung up and called the police. He knows that the next time he contacts me could mean his arrest. This was about a year ago, and I still have nightmares.. I still feel that he is lurking. I've since changed jobs and location, but still am affraid.
You would think that would scare me off my computer forever.. and it certainly HAS scared me away from chat rooms. However.. around the same time that this was happening, I sent an email to a collegue of mine.. or at least, I thought I was sending him mail. It would up being a wrong number (similar screen name.. on aol).
The person who recieved my mail eventually became a dear friend.. he now has a strong presence in my life.. as far away as he is..we have been able to maintain a deep respectful friendship.. and we both know its limits. So, there you have it.. the bad, the ugly and the good, of online relationships.

Learn How to Attract Women and Make Them Want to Be Around You 24/7!

It doesn't matter whether you are rich or poor, handsome or ugly, skinny or fat... there are certain techniques that you can master, that will make just about any woman find you attractive and can't get enough of your company.
Have you ever notice a guy that just seem to have his way with the ladies... who has all the girls talking about him? You yourself may have even observed this guy and notice there's nothing particularly exceptional about him. He may not even be cute, rich or even ripped; yet he's like the ultimate chick magnet. Often times these guys don't even treat women with respect, yet like a bees hive swarmed with bees... Women just seem to swarm them!
Then what are his secrets that are making chicks find him so irresistible?
This is going to surprise when I tell you this, because you may have thought it needed Albert Einstein to figure this out... A woman is drawn to confidence in a man more than anything else! You must be now thinking it can't be that simple; there has to be more to it than that?
Let's go back to that guy that you don't see anything exceptional about, yet he has all the hot chicks talking. I am sure you have come across this guy before, maybe from high school, college or around your neighborhood. Often times you may make him out to be the biggest jerks around, and wondered... "What the hell do chicks see in him?" Yet he seems to master the art of becoming the ultimate chick magnet!
How does confidence make women find you irresistible?
Every woman loves a guy who seems to be sure of himself, and that is the trait that the guy you considered a jerk has that you might be lacking. A woman wants a guy who will stand up and be counted when necessary. Every woman likes to feel that sense of safety and assurance when they are around a man.
If you learn to satisfy these needs and her other emotional needs... it is much easier for her to start trusting and bonding with you, and start beginning to thinking you are the most unique guy in the world. So the most important key is to use your confidence to appeal to her emotions. The way to a woman's heart is to portray a confidence that will make her feel completely relax around you.
So guys, if you want more women to find you attractive, work on your confidence level! If you have ever wondered why you don't have that much luck with chicks, don't even bother be fooled into thinking it's because you are not cute enough, or because you are not rich or any other myth you have been lead to believe.
The next thing, don't be intimidated when you hear women bragging about the type of guys they want or don't want, because most of the time... they will end up choosing the same type of guy they always say they would never go out with.
Do you want to know why that happens very often? The very guy who she swore was not her type, and who she said she would never go out with... she ends up with, and may even marry. That is the guy whose confidence level she found irresistible!