by Nancy Felipe Russo
Social scientists have known for years that the availability of legal abortion is not associated with long-term psychological distress in women who use it. An eight-year longitudinal study involving nearly 5,300 young women published in1992 found that the best predictor of well-being in women over the course of the study was their well-being at the start of the study, not their income level, job status, level of education or martial status or -- quite specifically -- whether they had had an abortion. Now a new follow-up study, published in the current edition of the American Psychological Association's (APA) journal Professional Psychology: Research and Practice finds that the same conclusion still applies regardless of religious or racial differences.
The study, by psychologists Nancy Felipe Russo, Ph.D., of Arizona State University and Amy J. Dabul, Ph.D., of Phoenix College, is further analysis of data gathered from a national sample of 5,295 women aged 14 to 24 (in 1979) who were interviewed annually from 1979 to 1987. The women's well-being was assessed using a reliable and valid measure of self-esteem in 1980 and again in 1987. This time, in addition to looking at variables such as income, employment and education, the researchers looked at race and religious beliefs and practices to see if they had any effect on women's well-being after having had an abortion.
They found that, overall, White women and Black women did not differ statistically on measures of self-esteem. Approximately the same proportion of Black women and White women reported having had an abortion (14.6% and 14.9% respectively), but Black women had more abortions than White women and Black women who had abortions were more likely than White women to be mothers (86% vs 57%). Nonetheless, having had an abortion (or more than one) had no relation with self-esteem in either group: "For both Black women and White women, prior self-esteem was the biggest predictor of subsequent self-esteem," the authors note. The same held true when they compared Black and White women who reported a religious affiliation and high or low church attendance with those who were not religious.
Since the type of religion to which women who had an abortion belonged also did not make a difference in their post-abortion well-being, the researchers focused specifically on Catholic versus non-Catholic women, given that the Catholic Church "has a consistent antiabortion position that is vigorously promoted."
Their findings in this analysis were more complex: nonCatholic women who had high church attendance and one abortion had the highest self-esteem; non-Catholic women who had low church attendance and repeat abortions had the lowest self-esteem. But at the same time, high-church-attendance non-Catholic women with one abortion had significantly higher self-esteem than did low-churchattendance Catholic women with no abortions. "Although highly religious Catholic women were slightly more likely to exhibit postabortion psychological distress than other women," the researchers say, "this fact is explained by lower pre-existing well-being."
Given these findings, the researchers ask: "Do highly distressed women who have had an abortion exist?" And, they answer: "Yes. But their distress is likely to be rooted in events and conditions that existed before they became pregnant. Legal abortion per se does not increase a woman's risk of negative wellbeing."
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Tuesday, 29 July 2008
FINDING SOMEONE RIGHT FOR YOU
Edward A. Dreyfus, Ph.D.
You've heard it before, "Where have all the good men (women) gone?" or, "All the good ones are taken!" The way people talk, you would think that mates were an extinct species. In this article I will be discussing the issue of mate selection in human beings and ways in which you can increase your odds of finding a "compatible mate."
You do not have to be alone; and there is more than one partner for you if you are willing to change your attitudes and put in a little effort. You must give up certain myths, time-honored beliefs, and begin to take charge of your romantic life. Romance is no different than any other aspect of your life. It requires that you take the responsibility for making it happen.
Your perfect partner is not going to materialize out of thin air and appear in your living room. You must develop a plan of action and then act upon it. Many folks are very sincere about their desires to be involved with another person, but are not committed to making it happen. Sincerity is an attitude, while commitment is an action. Sincerity without action does not make anything happen.
You've heard it before, "Where have all the good men (women) gone?" or, "All the good ones are taken!" The way people talk, you would think that mates were an extinct species. In this article I will be discussing the issue of mate selection in human beings and ways in which you can increase your odds of finding a "compatible mate."
You do not have to be alone; and there is more than one partner for you if you are willing to change your attitudes and put in a little effort. You must give up certain myths, time-honored beliefs, and begin to take charge of your romantic life. Romance is no different than any other aspect of your life. It requires that you take the responsibility for making it happen.
Your perfect partner is not going to materialize out of thin air and appear in your living room. You must develop a plan of action and then act upon it. Many folks are very sincere about their desires to be involved with another person, but are not committed to making it happen. Sincerity is an attitude, while commitment is an action. Sincerity without action does not make anything happen.
Good Sex is Good for You!
"Life without love is like a coconut in which the milk is dried up." Henry David Thoreau
"Good sex....Improves our health and may even contribute to our longevity."
Scientific evidence is accumulating support what many of us have suspected all along: good sex not only adds great enjoyment to our lives, but it also actually improves our health and may even contribute to our longevity.
In a new book called Sexual Healing, Dr. Paul Pearsall, Director of Behavioral Medicine at Detroit's Beaumont Hospital, writes that the joys and pleasures of living life and loving may provide us with something called an "intimacy inoculation" that actually protects us from disease.
Dr. Pearsall, who cites numerous other researchers, concludes, "Growing numbers of physicians now recognize that the health of the human heart depends not only on such factors as genetics, diet, and exercise, but also --to a large extent-- on the social and emotional health of the individual."
Sexual healing is achieved primarily through the daily challenge of maintaining a close, intimate relationship which, when accomplished, leads to balance between our health and healing systems.
Can lack of sexual intimacy create a risk factor for certain diseases? Dr. Pearsall cites research and his own clinical experience ndicating that sexual dissatisfaction seems to be prevalent prior to a heart attack in a high percentage of persons. Conversely, sexual contentment appears related to less severe migraine headaches, fewer and less-severe symptoms of premenstrual syndrome for women, and a reduction in symptoms related to chronic arthritis for both genders.
Although the exact biological mechanisms are not yet identified, many researchers are investigating how our thoughts, feelings, brain, immune system and sexual/genital system interact, influence each other, and affect our health. There may be an actual biological drive toward closeness, intimacy, and being connected to other human beings.
When we experience intimate, mutually caring sexual intimacy, we may experience a measurable change in neurochemicals and hormones that pour through the body and help promote health and healing.
"Hormones that pour through the body help promote health and healing."
Does this mean that to live longer or be more healthy we just need to DO IT more often or better? Of course not! Sex is a much broader concept that genital connecting or having an orgasm. Psychologist and author Gina Ogden, Ph.D. notes in her book, "Women Who Love Sex", that sex has everything to do with openness, connection to and bonding with a partner, feelings about what is happening to us, and memories. For those who love it, sex permeates their lives and is not merely a specialized, time-intensive, physical activity that takes place under the covers--as quickly as possible.
As a result of interviewing many women, Dr. Ogden learned that sexual desire, or lust, was produced by much more than physical stimulation. For women, according to Dr.Ogden, it has more to do with feelings of connectedness in their relationships: "Heart to heart, soul to soul, even mind to mind."
"For women, it has to do with feelings of connectedness in their relationships."
When discussing sexual connecting, Dr. Ogden's interviewees spoke of a FLOWING CONTINUUM OF PLEASURE, ORGASM, AND ECSTASY, rather than a one-time experience. They also described peak sexual experiences as coming from stimulation all over their bodies--not just from their genitals--including fingers, toes, hips, lips, neck, and earlobes.
Obviously, arousal and satisfaction evolve not only from receiving sexual energy, but also from the joy of stimulating one's partner. Sex, then, is a commitment of give and take.
Finally, the women Dr. Ogden studied have their own concepts of safe sex, essential to experiencing sexual pleasure and ecstasy. This kind of safe sex does NOT relate to preventing STDs or pregnancy; it relates, instead, to emotional and spiritual safety. Such safety is CRUCIAL for sexual closeness. Most of the women insisted that warm, loving connections with themselves and with their partners were essential to and inseparable from the experience of sexual ecstasy.
When people feel deeply close while merely holding hands, they are having sex. When people display caring for each other through hugs, caresses, and kissing, they are also having sex. When connecting people in a crowded room wink at each other in their own secret way, they are communicating sex to each other; such non-contact sex can be excitedly arousing and emotionally fulfilling. And, of course, during sexual union when the sky seems to open so a lightning bolt can strike the couple--while fireworks ignite and the earth stops spinning-- this is sex, too.
But wait. Do men also need this almost spiritual connection to enjoy sex and achieve good health? Well, yes and no. Men need sex and men need emotional connection, but many men don't necessarily need to put the two together!
According to Dr. Bernie Zilbergelt, who wrote The New Male Sexuality, sex for women is intertwined with personal connection. For some men , sex is unto itself--an act to be engaged in with or without love, with or without commitment, with or without connection.
Presently, younger boys are being socialized in a more enlightened manner; consequently, male attitudes toward sexual union are changing. But,unfortunately, the socialization of many men born in or before the 60's provided very little information of value to the formation and maintenance of intimate relationships. These men were taught, as youths, that males showed love by doing, not by talking or "connecting" with girls.
"Fortunately, anyone can...restore closeness, intimacy, and sexual flow."
Older men were usually also socialized to be strong and self-reliant, which usually means one doesn't easily talk about or admit personal problems. Many such men do not acknowledge worries and fears to their partners; they simply try to handle everything on their own.
A consequence of such reticence is (1) lack of intimacy in the relationship, with the wife feeling "left out" of her husband's life; and (2) men often don't get what they need because they don't know how to ask for it, so they feel distanced and frustrated when they really want closeness and intimacy as much as their partner does.
Sex under these conditions creates distance in the relationship or creates sexual dysfunction which drives an even deeper wedge into the relationship. This is especially true if a man is married to a woman must be wanted by her husband to have her sexuality validated.
Consequently, sex routinely becomes mechanical, unfeeling, and unfulfilling. Fortunately, anyone can break this vicious cycle and restore closeness, intimacy, and sexual flow in the relationship.
"Good sex....Improves our health and may even contribute to our longevity."
Scientific evidence is accumulating support what many of us have suspected all along: good sex not only adds great enjoyment to our lives, but it also actually improves our health and may even contribute to our longevity.
In a new book called Sexual Healing, Dr. Paul Pearsall, Director of Behavioral Medicine at Detroit's Beaumont Hospital, writes that the joys and pleasures of living life and loving may provide us with something called an "intimacy inoculation" that actually protects us from disease.
Dr. Pearsall, who cites numerous other researchers, concludes, "Growing numbers of physicians now recognize that the health of the human heart depends not only on such factors as genetics, diet, and exercise, but also --to a large extent-- on the social and emotional health of the individual."
Sexual healing is achieved primarily through the daily challenge of maintaining a close, intimate relationship which, when accomplished, leads to balance between our health and healing systems.
Can lack of sexual intimacy create a risk factor for certain diseases? Dr. Pearsall cites research and his own clinical experience ndicating that sexual dissatisfaction seems to be prevalent prior to a heart attack in a high percentage of persons. Conversely, sexual contentment appears related to less severe migraine headaches, fewer and less-severe symptoms of premenstrual syndrome for women, and a reduction in symptoms related to chronic arthritis for both genders.
Although the exact biological mechanisms are not yet identified, many researchers are investigating how our thoughts, feelings, brain, immune system and sexual/genital system interact, influence each other, and affect our health. There may be an actual biological drive toward closeness, intimacy, and being connected to other human beings.
When we experience intimate, mutually caring sexual intimacy, we may experience a measurable change in neurochemicals and hormones that pour through the body and help promote health and healing.
"Hormones that pour through the body help promote health and healing."
Does this mean that to live longer or be more healthy we just need to DO IT more often or better? Of course not! Sex is a much broader concept that genital connecting or having an orgasm. Psychologist and author Gina Ogden, Ph.D. notes in her book, "Women Who Love Sex", that sex has everything to do with openness, connection to and bonding with a partner, feelings about what is happening to us, and memories. For those who love it, sex permeates their lives and is not merely a specialized, time-intensive, physical activity that takes place under the covers--as quickly as possible.
As a result of interviewing many women, Dr. Ogden learned that sexual desire, or lust, was produced by much more than physical stimulation. For women, according to Dr.Ogden, it has more to do with feelings of connectedness in their relationships: "Heart to heart, soul to soul, even mind to mind."
"For women, it has to do with feelings of connectedness in their relationships."
When discussing sexual connecting, Dr. Ogden's interviewees spoke of a FLOWING CONTINUUM OF PLEASURE, ORGASM, AND ECSTASY, rather than a one-time experience. They also described peak sexual experiences as coming from stimulation all over their bodies--not just from their genitals--including fingers, toes, hips, lips, neck, and earlobes.
Obviously, arousal and satisfaction evolve not only from receiving sexual energy, but also from the joy of stimulating one's partner. Sex, then, is a commitment of give and take.
Finally, the women Dr. Ogden studied have their own concepts of safe sex, essential to experiencing sexual pleasure and ecstasy. This kind of safe sex does NOT relate to preventing STDs or pregnancy; it relates, instead, to emotional and spiritual safety. Such safety is CRUCIAL for sexual closeness. Most of the women insisted that warm, loving connections with themselves and with their partners were essential to and inseparable from the experience of sexual ecstasy.
When people feel deeply close while merely holding hands, they are having sex. When people display caring for each other through hugs, caresses, and kissing, they are also having sex. When connecting people in a crowded room wink at each other in their own secret way, they are communicating sex to each other; such non-contact sex can be excitedly arousing and emotionally fulfilling. And, of course, during sexual union when the sky seems to open so a lightning bolt can strike the couple--while fireworks ignite and the earth stops spinning-- this is sex, too.
But wait. Do men also need this almost spiritual connection to enjoy sex and achieve good health? Well, yes and no. Men need sex and men need emotional connection, but many men don't necessarily need to put the two together!
According to Dr. Bernie Zilbergelt, who wrote The New Male Sexuality, sex for women is intertwined with personal connection. For some men , sex is unto itself--an act to be engaged in with or without love, with or without commitment, with or without connection.
Presently, younger boys are being socialized in a more enlightened manner; consequently, male attitudes toward sexual union are changing. But,unfortunately, the socialization of many men born in or before the 60's provided very little information of value to the formation and maintenance of intimate relationships. These men were taught, as youths, that males showed love by doing, not by talking or "connecting" with girls.
"Fortunately, anyone can...restore closeness, intimacy, and sexual flow."
Older men were usually also socialized to be strong and self-reliant, which usually means one doesn't easily talk about or admit personal problems. Many such men do not acknowledge worries and fears to their partners; they simply try to handle everything on their own.
A consequence of such reticence is (1) lack of intimacy in the relationship, with the wife feeling "left out" of her husband's life; and (2) men often don't get what they need because they don't know how to ask for it, so they feel distanced and frustrated when they really want closeness and intimacy as much as their partner does.
Sex under these conditions creates distance in the relationship or creates sexual dysfunction which drives an even deeper wedge into the relationship. This is especially true if a man is married to a woman must be wanted by her husband to have her sexuality validated.
Consequently, sex routinely becomes mechanical, unfeeling, and unfulfilling. Fortunately, anyone can break this vicious cycle and restore closeness, intimacy, and sexual flow in the relationship.
Wednesday, 23 July 2008
The best Nigerian Girls Are From?
This title reminds of the story of the English professor who in describing
English women said they are pear shaped! Some argue that as it concerns
Nigerian girls, Yoruba girls are the closest in relationship to the typical
English woman if that professor was right, and I mean absolutely right! The
foregoing was for laughs! Nigeria is a very diverse country and so are its
women. We are trying to discover where the most desirable of girls come from
in Nigeria.
Are Nigerian Girls Different?
We don't know if it was myth, folktale, lazy talk but Nigerians seem to have
classed women from the east as the more beautiful and sexy lot? Igbos,
Deltans and the good old Calabar girls.... The saying back then (probably still
is...old stories die hard) was, 'if you allow a Calabar girl take care of you
or more specifically cook for you as a man, you will forget home'! You decide
if that is true!
Yoruba girls didn't seem to have any real reputation? Hmmm....we are searching
...YES! Yoruba girls (women) seem to have come away with the''orobo'' tag if you
know what I mean! For those who don't know, 'orobo' is a Yoruba reference to
someone who has a big bum! The fame of Yoruba women is the fame of big bums
and society parties where they role there bums around?!
There seems to be little mention of Nigerian girls from the North! The
slightest of things we can remember is that Northern girls have a distinctly
slender shape to them. I guess many of our views of Northern girls is
swallowed up in the nature of there religion? We are not sure but that seems
to closest answer to this piece of riddle. What do you reckon?
How Do You Date Nigerian Girls?
We beat our chests recently about how Polish men in the U.K would not be able
to walk up to a Nigerian babe and chat her up! We had to shut up when we saw
a Nigerian girl and a Polish man in a relationship the Polish man was bent on
taking down the aisle! We wonder if she has an ulterior motive! Anything can
happen you would say!
We have seen some profiles on Nigerian dating sites specifying that any
prospective partner must come from a specific part of the country. We wonder
if that's acutely narrowed minded?! We guess it all boils down to what the
individual wants!
English women said they are pear shaped! Some argue that as it concerns
Nigerian girls, Yoruba girls are the closest in relationship to the typical
English woman if that professor was right, and I mean absolutely right! The
foregoing was for laughs! Nigeria is a very diverse country and so are its
women. We are trying to discover where the most desirable of girls come from
in Nigeria.
Are Nigerian Girls Different?
We don't know if it was myth, folktale, lazy talk but Nigerians seem to have
classed women from the east as the more beautiful and sexy lot? Igbos,
Deltans and the good old Calabar girls.... The saying back then (probably still
is...old stories die hard) was, 'if you allow a Calabar girl take care of you
or more specifically cook for you as a man, you will forget home'! You decide
if that is true!
Yoruba girls didn't seem to have any real reputation? Hmmm....we are searching
...YES! Yoruba girls (women) seem to have come away with the''orobo'' tag if you
know what I mean! For those who don't know, 'orobo' is a Yoruba reference to
someone who has a big bum! The fame of Yoruba women is the fame of big bums
and society parties where they role there bums around?!
There seems to be little mention of Nigerian girls from the North! The
slightest of things we can remember is that Northern girls have a distinctly
slender shape to them. I guess many of our views of Northern girls is
swallowed up in the nature of there religion? We are not sure but that seems
to closest answer to this piece of riddle. What do you reckon?
How Do You Date Nigerian Girls?
We beat our chests recently about how Polish men in the U.K would not be able
to walk up to a Nigerian babe and chat her up! We had to shut up when we saw
a Nigerian girl and a Polish man in a relationship the Polish man was bent on
taking down the aisle! We wonder if she has an ulterior motive! Anything can
happen you would say!
We have seen some profiles on Nigerian dating sites specifying that any
prospective partner must come from a specific part of the country. We wonder
if that's acutely narrowed minded?! We guess it all boils down to what the
individual wants!
Thursday, 17 July 2008
Making Friends with Online Bingo: by Ben Binding
Bingo is not only a way to have fun and perhaps earn a few quid but is an exciting new way to make friends. Though originally seen as a game for older women, online bingo has transformed that image as a global game played by young and old, men and women such is its massive and ever growing popularity.
There are an ever increasing number of online bingo sites to choose from, each offers a variety of different games and prizes. One common feature though of these sites is the online community. These groups are as important as the game or the prize money. In these sites people can chat and have a laugh with people from all over the country and world. People who would never normally meet can strike up new friendships that can last and exist outside the bingo site.
Traditional bingo halls have always been a good place to meet friends and make some new ones. Some people are put of from bingo halls whether it's the stereotypical view of smoke filled room with a cheesy bingo caller and grannies doing a spot of knitting in between games. Some just find it difficult to get to, having to arrange a sitter for your children, paying a small fortune for your taxi and worse of all having to brave the sometimes awful weather. With online bingo you can stay in the comfort of your own home have a nice cup of tea and chat all night long with your friends, not to mention winning a few pounds along the way.
Message boards are another great way to communicate with fellow gamers and most online bingo sites offer some kind of board that allows its users to post messages. This is a great way of communicating with people who aren't even online at the time. User can post a message to a friend so that they can reply when they come back online. It's also a great way of picking up hints and tips to win online bingo games. The helpful community will only be too happy to help by passing on the secrets of there success so that you can start winning big time. It's also a great way to ask and get answers to any questions even those not related to bingo .
There are an ever increasing number of online bingo sites to choose from, each offers a variety of different games and prizes. One common feature though of these sites is the online community. These groups are as important as the game or the prize money. In these sites people can chat and have a laugh with people from all over the country and world. People who would never normally meet can strike up new friendships that can last and exist outside the bingo site.
Traditional bingo halls have always been a good place to meet friends and make some new ones. Some people are put of from bingo halls whether it's the stereotypical view of smoke filled room with a cheesy bingo caller and grannies doing a spot of knitting in between games. Some just find it difficult to get to, having to arrange a sitter for your children, paying a small fortune for your taxi and worse of all having to brave the sometimes awful weather. With online bingo you can stay in the comfort of your own home have a nice cup of tea and chat all night long with your friends, not to mention winning a few pounds along the way.
Message boards are another great way to communicate with fellow gamers and most online bingo sites offer some kind of board that allows its users to post messages. This is a great way of communicating with people who aren't even online at the time. User can post a message to a friend so that they can reply when they come back online. It's also a great way of picking up hints and tips to win online bingo games. The helpful community will only be too happy to help by passing on the secrets of there success so that you can start winning big time. It's also a great way to ask and get answers to any questions even those not related to bingo .
Wednesday, 16 July 2008
Lower Back Tattoo Designs - Fresh New Look
For many years, it was not considered socially acceptable for women to have tattoos. But with the advent of lower back tattoo designs and other body art geared towards the female form, these taboos have changed.
During the past few decades, the demand for tattoos among women has increased dramatically. It was during the 1990s in particular that the lower back emerged as a logical spot for tattoos, and it has become one of the most highly tattooed parts of the female anatomy.
Lower back tattoos are often associated with sexuality, as they emphasize the curvy nature of a woman's figure. They are inked to follow the slope of the back on either side of the spine, and they work particularly well for females because they suit the wideness of the hips.
Tattoos on the lower back can range from intricate tribal designs or creative symmetrical shapes to actual pictorial images that are photographic in nature. These multicolor elements can comprise either part of the design or the entire tattoo itself.
Some of the more popular designs requested for lower back designs include tribal patterns, floral collections, hearts, roses, depictions of the sun and planets, pairs of wings, and images of the lotus seed. Women have also begun to explore traditionally male-oriented art, including dragons, Harley art, and Native American designs. Many girls who get a tattoo on their lower back for the first time come back to have it augmented or to get an additional tattoo on another part of their body.
Women admit to liking tattoos on the lower back for many reasons. Tattoos of this nature are touted as fun tattoos to show off, especially with the trend of current fashions. Low cut bathing suits, low to mid-rise jeans, and other lowrider pants contribute to the image of sexiness that has been facilitated by lower back tattoos.
Another positive aspect afforded by tattoos on the lower back is that the space available lends itself to large, intricate designs. The wearer has the freedom of choice. Also, the lower back is a spot on the body that does not change much with age or weight so the design will remain consistent over time.
Overall, lower back tattoo designs have really opened the door of opportunity for women to have large tattoos. Viewed as an asset of sensuality and a tool to enhance feminine beauty, the tapestry of the lower back will continue to be bared for the sake of art.
During the past few decades, the demand for tattoos among women has increased dramatically. It was during the 1990s in particular that the lower back emerged as a logical spot for tattoos, and it has become one of the most highly tattooed parts of the female anatomy.
Lower back tattoos are often associated with sexuality, as they emphasize the curvy nature of a woman's figure. They are inked to follow the slope of the back on either side of the spine, and they work particularly well for females because they suit the wideness of the hips.
Tattoos on the lower back can range from intricate tribal designs or creative symmetrical shapes to actual pictorial images that are photographic in nature. These multicolor elements can comprise either part of the design or the entire tattoo itself.
Some of the more popular designs requested for lower back designs include tribal patterns, floral collections, hearts, roses, depictions of the sun and planets, pairs of wings, and images of the lotus seed. Women have also begun to explore traditionally male-oriented art, including dragons, Harley art, and Native American designs. Many girls who get a tattoo on their lower back for the first time come back to have it augmented or to get an additional tattoo on another part of their body.
Women admit to liking tattoos on the lower back for many reasons. Tattoos of this nature are touted as fun tattoos to show off, especially with the trend of current fashions. Low cut bathing suits, low to mid-rise jeans, and other lowrider pants contribute to the image of sexiness that has been facilitated by lower back tattoos.
Another positive aspect afforded by tattoos on the lower back is that the space available lends itself to large, intricate designs. The wearer has the freedom of choice. Also, the lower back is a spot on the body that does not change much with age or weight so the design will remain consistent over time.
Overall, lower back tattoo designs have really opened the door of opportunity for women to have large tattoos. Viewed as an asset of sensuality and a tool to enhance feminine beauty, the tapestry of the lower back will continue to be bared for the sake of art.
The best vibrators to please a woman
Vibrators have become the best friends of women who are alone or who find their sexual urges to be much higher than their partner can satisfy. Women who love enjoying multiple orgasms find a vibrator an indispensible toy. The fun part is that they can use the vibrator alone or with their partners.
Vibrators can arouse women who pass through various sexual stages before reaching orgasm. When a woman uses a vibrator, it makes her every moment comparable to love play, which helps in attaining full sexual arousal and satisfaction. With the new age vibrators that come with so many different features, women have been able to explore areas of their sexuality which were hitherto unknown even to them.
Lot of women are unable to reach orgasm even after having sexual intercourse with their male partners. There can be many reasons for this unsatisfactory sexual experience. With a vibrator in hand, these women can achieve this sexual climax with ease; after all, who has heard of a vibrator getting tired? Vibrators can go on till the time women reach an orgasm of their liking.
There are many styles and types of vibrators available in the market providing women options to explore their sexual orgasm with vibrator sex. The most prominent vibrators are rabbit vibrators, clit vibrators, Jack rabbit vibrators, adult vibrators, and G-spot vibrators. These different types of vibrators can help make vibrator sex a pleasurable and memorable experience. Read on to know briefly about each of these vibrators.
Rabbit vibrators
This vibrator is named after a rabbit, which is a cute and sweet animal. A rabbit vibrator contains a shaft, beads, pearls, and swivels. These provide internal stimulation. The rabbit like ears of a rabbit vibrator provides external stimulation. Women who use rabbit vibrators experience both internal and external stimulation.
Rabbit vibrators are among the most popular sex toys, which are available in different styles in the market. There are many styles in rabbit vibrators, which ensure immense fun and pleasure for women users. Some of the styles in rabbit vibrators include romping ramping rabbit, hop'n rabbit stroker, double bunny, and rabbitronic rabbit vibrator.
Clit vibrators
Clitoris is the most sensitive of the sexual organs of a woman. If the clitoris of women is stimulated properly, they can easily achieve orgasm. The best sex toy, which ensures proper stimulation of clitoris in women, is clit vibrator.
Clit vibrator is used through vagina and should not be used through anal area. Some of the styles of clit vibrators are hand held clit vibrators and wearable clit vibrators, which can recharge the sex life of any woman.
Some of the hand-held clit vibrators include wiggle wand clit vibrators and octopussy clit vibrators, which have eight legs and resemble an octopus in shape.
Jack rabbit vibrators
Jack rabbit vibrators contain a 7 inch shaft and multi-coloured rotating beads, which help stimulate the innermost parts of the vagina. Women should use Jack rabbit vibrators with water or oil based lubricants for best results.
Women who use Jack rabbit vibrators can expect sexual ecstasy beyond their known boundaries. Jack rabbit vibrators can also be used by couples for enhancing their sexual experience.
Adult vibrators
Adult vibrator is a general term for vibrators, which are used by women above 18 years of age for their sexual gratification. Adult vibrators are not a new thing for women. These were used prescribed by doctors in the past for treating hysteria problems among women. Today adult vibrators have become friends of women who use these sex toys for sexual arousal.
G-spot vibrators
G-spot arousal is considered the height of sexual stimulation in women. If this spot is stimulated during sexual intercourse, a woman achieves orgasm each time. However, in most women, it remains unexplored, as it is very deep in the vagina, where a man's penis finds it difficult to stimulate it. However, use of G-spot vibrators has helped many women achieve sexual orgasm.
G-spot vibrators are available in different shapes and styles which help women explore their G-spot up to its full potential. Some of the shapes include dolphin and jelly G-spot vibrators.
Some women may think that vibrator sex is only for those who are adventurous. It may be an adventure to have vibrator sex. However, it opens up many unexplored parts of vagina of a woman. Vibrator sex with the help of different types of vibrators helps women explore their true sexual potential and revive their sex life.
Vibrators can arouse women who pass through various sexual stages before reaching orgasm. When a woman uses a vibrator, it makes her every moment comparable to love play, which helps in attaining full sexual arousal and satisfaction. With the new age vibrators that come with so many different features, women have been able to explore areas of their sexuality which were hitherto unknown even to them.
Lot of women are unable to reach orgasm even after having sexual intercourse with their male partners. There can be many reasons for this unsatisfactory sexual experience. With a vibrator in hand, these women can achieve this sexual climax with ease; after all, who has heard of a vibrator getting tired? Vibrators can go on till the time women reach an orgasm of their liking.
There are many styles and types of vibrators available in the market providing women options to explore their sexual orgasm with vibrator sex. The most prominent vibrators are rabbit vibrators, clit vibrators, Jack rabbit vibrators, adult vibrators, and G-spot vibrators. These different types of vibrators can help make vibrator sex a pleasurable and memorable experience. Read on to know briefly about each of these vibrators.
Rabbit vibrators
This vibrator is named after a rabbit, which is a cute and sweet animal. A rabbit vibrator contains a shaft, beads, pearls, and swivels. These provide internal stimulation. The rabbit like ears of a rabbit vibrator provides external stimulation. Women who use rabbit vibrators experience both internal and external stimulation.
Rabbit vibrators are among the most popular sex toys, which are available in different styles in the market. There are many styles in rabbit vibrators, which ensure immense fun and pleasure for women users. Some of the styles in rabbit vibrators include romping ramping rabbit, hop'n rabbit stroker, double bunny, and rabbitronic rabbit vibrator.
Clit vibrators
Clitoris is the most sensitive of the sexual organs of a woman. If the clitoris of women is stimulated properly, they can easily achieve orgasm. The best sex toy, which ensures proper stimulation of clitoris in women, is clit vibrator.
Clit vibrator is used through vagina and should not be used through anal area. Some of the styles of clit vibrators are hand held clit vibrators and wearable clit vibrators, which can recharge the sex life of any woman.
Some of the hand-held clit vibrators include wiggle wand clit vibrators and octopussy clit vibrators, which have eight legs and resemble an octopus in shape.
Jack rabbit vibrators
Jack rabbit vibrators contain a 7 inch shaft and multi-coloured rotating beads, which help stimulate the innermost parts of the vagina. Women should use Jack rabbit vibrators with water or oil based lubricants for best results.
Women who use Jack rabbit vibrators can expect sexual ecstasy beyond their known boundaries. Jack rabbit vibrators can also be used by couples for enhancing their sexual experience.
Adult vibrators
Adult vibrator is a general term for vibrators, which are used by women above 18 years of age for their sexual gratification. Adult vibrators are not a new thing for women. These were used prescribed by doctors in the past for treating hysteria problems among women. Today adult vibrators have become friends of women who use these sex toys for sexual arousal.
G-spot vibrators
G-spot arousal is considered the height of sexual stimulation in women. If this spot is stimulated during sexual intercourse, a woman achieves orgasm each time. However, in most women, it remains unexplored, as it is very deep in the vagina, where a man's penis finds it difficult to stimulate it. However, use of G-spot vibrators has helped many women achieve sexual orgasm.
G-spot vibrators are available in different shapes and styles which help women explore their G-spot up to its full potential. Some of the shapes include dolphin and jelly G-spot vibrators.
Some women may think that vibrator sex is only for those who are adventurous. It may be an adventure to have vibrator sex. However, it opens up many unexplored parts of vagina of a woman. Vibrator sex with the help of different types of vibrators helps women explore their true sexual potential and revive their sex life.
What Sexual Positions to Use? by Brian Welsch
Women’s magazines are often filled with articles promising sexual positions that will blow your mind and guarantee orgasms. Unfortunately a lot of these positions are complicated and require diagrams for you to follow the somewhat cryptic instructions. How can anyone have fun, let alone have an orgasm, when they are trying their best not to strain their backs in these fancy acrobatic sexual positions.
The truth is that sometimes even tried and tested positions will accomplish what you want, orgasms for the both of you. Remember that everyone is different and what works for some people may not work for you so experiment and decide what you love and what needs to be tossed.
The Jazzed Up Missionary
Think the missionary position is boring? Think again. By tweaking ‘ordinary’ sexual positions a little you can have very intense orgasms. First the woman places a cushion or pillow underneath her butt and while the man is thrusting, the woman brings her legs up as if folding her body in half.
This allows the woman’s G-spot to be stimulated and once she feels like she is about to orgasm she lowers her legs. Once this happens the man lifts his pelvic bone upwards and lines it up with the woman’s clitoris. This little twist on this old position makes it more intense and it’s sure to be met with success.
Slow and Steady
Sometimes the best way to achieve an orgasm is to get into sexual positions that allow great intimacy. A position that requires plenty of thrusting and movement is great sometimes but a relaxing one that allows you to look into your partner’s eyes is a must at times.
For such occasions the woman can lie on her back while the man lies on his side facing the woman. The woman then wraps her legs around the man’s hips and he slowly thrusts into her. These sexual positions can last for hours and can be very satisfying one.
The Reverse Cowgirl
It’s sometimes hard for a woman to achieve orgasm if the sexual positions do not provide enough stimulation to her clitoris. With a woman on top she can better control the pace and stimulate her clitoris if she wants to. Jazz this position up a little, the man lies on his back and the woman gets on top but with her back to her man’s face.
Instead of straddling the man’s hips she closes her legs and places her feet flat between the man’s legs. This increases the intensity of everything and will allow her to stimulate her clitoris if she wants to. The G-spot is also stimulated allowing for a more intense orgasm.
The truth is that sometimes even tried and tested positions will accomplish what you want, orgasms for the both of you. Remember that everyone is different and what works for some people may not work for you so experiment and decide what you love and what needs to be tossed.
The Jazzed Up Missionary
Think the missionary position is boring? Think again. By tweaking ‘ordinary’ sexual positions a little you can have very intense orgasms. First the woman places a cushion or pillow underneath her butt and while the man is thrusting, the woman brings her legs up as if folding her body in half.
This allows the woman’s G-spot to be stimulated and once she feels like she is about to orgasm she lowers her legs. Once this happens the man lifts his pelvic bone upwards and lines it up with the woman’s clitoris. This little twist on this old position makes it more intense and it’s sure to be met with success.
Slow and Steady
Sometimes the best way to achieve an orgasm is to get into sexual positions that allow great intimacy. A position that requires plenty of thrusting and movement is great sometimes but a relaxing one that allows you to look into your partner’s eyes is a must at times.
For such occasions the woman can lie on her back while the man lies on his side facing the woman. The woman then wraps her legs around the man’s hips and he slowly thrusts into her. These sexual positions can last for hours and can be very satisfying one.
The Reverse Cowgirl
It’s sometimes hard for a woman to achieve orgasm if the sexual positions do not provide enough stimulation to her clitoris. With a woman on top she can better control the pace and stimulate her clitoris if she wants to. Jazz this position up a little, the man lies on his back and the woman gets on top but with her back to her man’s face.
Instead of straddling the man’s hips she closes her legs and places her feet flat between the man’s legs. This increases the intensity of everything and will allow her to stimulate her clitoris if she wants to. The G-spot is also stimulated allowing for a more intense orgasm.
The Secrets To Looking Your Best
What is your first reaction when you are invited to an event or party of some kind? Do you start looking forward to it, or do you start panicking over what you will wear? If you fall into the second group you're not alone. Many women struggle to find an outfit that they feel comfortable in and that suits their figure, but if you follow a few simple rules you can get a big head start whenever you need to buy something new for an upcoming occasion. The first thing you should think about is your figure. Do you like to wear figure hugging outfits or would you prefer something looser and more flowing? Most women have something about themselves that they would prefer to hide, and by carefully choosing what you are going to wear you can create a look that accentuates your best features and takes the attention away from those you'd rather keep to yourself! Another point to think about is colour. Some women automatically go for black to try and hide a larger figure, but sometimes a well tailored and comfortably fitting outfit in a lighter colour can enhance your figure a lot more. It also looks a lot brighter during the summer months when you really need a light colour to help keep you cool in the sun. Don't forget what you wear on your feet either. Heels are wonderful for making you stand up straighter - keeping your back straight and your tummy sucked in - but don't wear anything higher than you feel comfortable in. If you buy new ones especially for the occasion it can be a good idea to break them in before you go out, since you don't want to be contending with blisters and sore feet while you are having fun. Accessories are also important since they can provide a stunning finishing touch to any outfit, regardless of the colour or style. Fashion jewellery is a good way to complete the look without spending a lot of money doing so, but make sure you buy your outfit first. You can then match your jewellery to what you are wearing. This is especially advisable if you are trying to match colours. Another point to think about is what kind of outfit you are going to opt for. Do you feel more comfortable in trousers? Or do you always head for the section of the store which has all the party dresses on display? Party dresses are certainly more feminine and can keep you looking and feeling cool during summer parties and get togethers. Coupled with a few accessories they provide a quick and easy way to get ready in no time and you can still turn plenty of heads when you arrive!
Dating Advice Tip: The Movies, Dinner and Your Life Story
It has happened to the best of us. People who went out of their way to make sure the date went smoothly have found themselves in the same predicament. On more than a few occasions it has been the deciding issue in whether the dating relationship blossoms or flops.
Having good conversation is essential for not only getting to know the other person but also establishing a comfort zone. When there is a healthy dose of give and take discussion between you and your date then there is a propensity for both parties to lighten up. Any musician, athlete or artist will tell you their best work happens when they are relaxed. It's no different for dating.
It's not that you want or need to fill every silent moment with chatter. Indeed once you establish that conversation comfort zone than the pauses are no longer awkward. In fact it's more than okay to take a breather and gather your thoughts. Or just enjoy the ambience and good vibes you both are sharing.
All of this starts with good chatter between the two of you. What you must be on guard against is that you do not get too carried away. In some circles it's known as sharing too much information; commonly referred to as hogging the conversation.
It's an easy trap to fall into. Both of you have come armed with things to discuss; current events, what was TV or how was you day at work. The discussion starts to flow and it seems like it's only a matter of time before it goes to the next level.
But suddenly it's become a one person show. Yours. You talk and talk and keep talking to the point there is no way your date can get a word in edgewise. You remember your childhood just like it was yesterday. The only problem is you then proceed to explain in long drawn out detail what you were doing everyday between the ages 14 and 17 including weekends. If your date amazingly manages to break thru and mention something related to their own personal experience, it only serves to crank you up a couple of more notches and send you off on another tangent.
Few things can raise a red flag better than conversation domination. It alerts your date to the fact that if they were to go forward with the relationship, they better get used to playing second fiddle because life with you is going to be all about you.
Instead let them know they are an equal partner on this date. You've got good conversations skills but you may impress them even more if you spend the same amount of time listening. If the comfort zone you established has gotten your date to open up about themselves, then do them and yourself a favor by sharing some of that spotlight. This tells your date that it is not all about you and that you find them fascinating as well.
It also comes down to restraint. Not sharing so much of your life's history the first few dates lends you an air of mystery. That doesn't mean ducking questions or exaggerating your answers. It does mean however saving some of that good information for another time. When you share so much of yourself at one sitting, your date may see no reason to go any further since in their eyes they basically know all they need to know about you.
If you are excited about someone it's easy to get carried away. You like them and you are showing trust by sharing different aspects of your life. Just keep in mind that it is a two way street. Focus on a balanced amount of give and take and let your life's history (and your date's) naturally unfold as the relationship grows.
Having good conversation is essential for not only getting to know the other person but also establishing a comfort zone. When there is a healthy dose of give and take discussion between you and your date then there is a propensity for both parties to lighten up. Any musician, athlete or artist will tell you their best work happens when they are relaxed. It's no different for dating.
It's not that you want or need to fill every silent moment with chatter. Indeed once you establish that conversation comfort zone than the pauses are no longer awkward. In fact it's more than okay to take a breather and gather your thoughts. Or just enjoy the ambience and good vibes you both are sharing.
All of this starts with good chatter between the two of you. What you must be on guard against is that you do not get too carried away. In some circles it's known as sharing too much information; commonly referred to as hogging the conversation.
It's an easy trap to fall into. Both of you have come armed with things to discuss; current events, what was TV or how was you day at work. The discussion starts to flow and it seems like it's only a matter of time before it goes to the next level.
But suddenly it's become a one person show. Yours. You talk and talk and keep talking to the point there is no way your date can get a word in edgewise. You remember your childhood just like it was yesterday. The only problem is you then proceed to explain in long drawn out detail what you were doing everyday between the ages 14 and 17 including weekends. If your date amazingly manages to break thru and mention something related to their own personal experience, it only serves to crank you up a couple of more notches and send you off on another tangent.
Few things can raise a red flag better than conversation domination. It alerts your date to the fact that if they were to go forward with the relationship, they better get used to playing second fiddle because life with you is going to be all about you.
Instead let them know they are an equal partner on this date. You've got good conversations skills but you may impress them even more if you spend the same amount of time listening. If the comfort zone you established has gotten your date to open up about themselves, then do them and yourself a favor by sharing some of that spotlight. This tells your date that it is not all about you and that you find them fascinating as well.
It also comes down to restraint. Not sharing so much of your life's history the first few dates lends you an air of mystery. That doesn't mean ducking questions or exaggerating your answers. It does mean however saving some of that good information for another time. When you share so much of yourself at one sitting, your date may see no reason to go any further since in their eyes they basically know all they need to know about you.
If you are excited about someone it's easy to get carried away. You like them and you are showing trust by sharing different aspects of your life. Just keep in mind that it is a two way street. Focus on a balanced amount of give and take and let your life's history (and your date's) naturally unfold as the relationship grows.
Learn How to Attract Women and Make Them Want to Be Around You 24/7!
It doesn't matter whether you are rich or poor, handsome or ugly, skinny or fat... there are certain techniques that you can master, that will make just about any woman find you attractive and can't get enough of your company.
Have you ever notice a guy that just seem to have his way with the ladies... who has all the girls talking about him? You yourself may have even observed this guy and notice there's nothing particularly exceptional about him. He may not even be cute, rich or even ripped; yet he's like the ultimate chick magnet. Often times these guys don't even treat women with respect, yet like a bees hive swarmed with bees... Women just seem to swarm them!
Then what are his secrets that are making chicks find him so irresistible?
This is going to surprise when I tell you this, because you may have thought it needed Albert Einstein to figure this out... A woman is drawn to confidence in a man more than anything else! You must be now thinking it can't be that simple; there has to be more to it than that?
Let's go back to that guy that you don't see anything exceptional about, yet he has all the hot chicks talking. I am sure you have come across this guy before, maybe from high school, college or around your neighborhood. Often times you may make him out to be the biggest jerks around, and wondered... "What the hell do chicks see in him?" Yet he seems to master the art of becoming the ultimate chick magnet!
How does confidence make women find you irresistible?
Every woman loves a guy who seems to be sure of himself, and that is the trait that the guy you considered a jerk has that you might be lacking. A woman wants a guy who will stand up and be counted when necessary. Every woman likes to feel that sense of safety and assurance when they are around a man.
If you learn to satisfy these needs and her other emotional needs... it is much easier for her to start trusting and bonding with you, and start beginning to thinking you are the most unique guy in the world. So the most important key is to use your confidence to appeal to her emotions. The way to a woman's heart is to portray a confidence that will make her feel completely relax around you.
So guys, if you want more women to find you attractive, work on your confidence level! If you have ever wondered why you don't have that much luck with chicks, don't even bother be fooled into thinking it's because you are not cute enough, or because you are not rich or any other myth you have been lead to believe.
The next thing, don't be intimidated when you hear women bragging about the type of guys they want or don't want, because most of the time... they will end up choosing the same type of guy they always say they would never go out with.
Do you want to know why that happens very often? The very guy who she swore was not her type, and who she said she would never go out with... she ends up with, and may even marry. That is the guy whose confidence level she found irresistible!
Have you ever notice a guy that just seem to have his way with the ladies... who has all the girls talking about him? You yourself may have even observed this guy and notice there's nothing particularly exceptional about him. He may not even be cute, rich or even ripped; yet he's like the ultimate chick magnet. Often times these guys don't even treat women with respect, yet like a bees hive swarmed with bees... Women just seem to swarm them!
Then what are his secrets that are making chicks find him so irresistible?
This is going to surprise when I tell you this, because you may have thought it needed Albert Einstein to figure this out... A woman is drawn to confidence in a man more than anything else! You must be now thinking it can't be that simple; there has to be more to it than that?
Let's go back to that guy that you don't see anything exceptional about, yet he has all the hot chicks talking. I am sure you have come across this guy before, maybe from high school, college or around your neighborhood. Often times you may make him out to be the biggest jerks around, and wondered... "What the hell do chicks see in him?" Yet he seems to master the art of becoming the ultimate chick magnet!
How does confidence make women find you irresistible?
Every woman loves a guy who seems to be sure of himself, and that is the trait that the guy you considered a jerk has that you might be lacking. A woman wants a guy who will stand up and be counted when necessary. Every woman likes to feel that sense of safety and assurance when they are around a man.
If you learn to satisfy these needs and her other emotional needs... it is much easier for her to start trusting and bonding with you, and start beginning to thinking you are the most unique guy in the world. So the most important key is to use your confidence to appeal to her emotions. The way to a woman's heart is to portray a confidence that will make her feel completely relax around you.
So guys, if you want more women to find you attractive, work on your confidence level! If you have ever wondered why you don't have that much luck with chicks, don't even bother be fooled into thinking it's because you are not cute enough, or because you are not rich or any other myth you have been lead to believe.
The next thing, don't be intimidated when you hear women bragging about the type of guys they want or don't want, because most of the time... they will end up choosing the same type of guy they always say they would never go out with.
Do you want to know why that happens very often? The very guy who she swore was not her type, and who she said she would never go out with... she ends up with, and may even marry. That is the guy whose confidence level she found irresistible!
How to Overcome Fear of Rejection in Dating Women
The real obstacle here is the fear.
As I mentioned, fear of rejection, or imagining rejection when you should be imagining success, leads to walking away.
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
Ironically, I've found that the best way to overcome my own fear of rejection was to see that it wasn't going to actually happen.
The more times I approached women and started conversations and the more I saw that women usually responded positively, the less I imagined things going wrong.
This led to a positive feedback loop of me wanting to approach more women and have more success.
Here are a few ideas for overcoming your own fear of rejection:
1) Go out to a bar, and watch men approaching women.
Take a Saturday night, and just go out alone. Find a seat at the bar where things are busy, and just watch.
Make sure you visit a place that is really busy, so you can see a lot of people interacting.
Now, pay attention.
You'll begin to pick out the guys who are approaching a lot of women, asking them to dance, buying them drinks, etc. Watch what happens.
You'll be able to see for yourself that most of the time, even if the woman isn't interested, nothing bad happens.
You'll also see that when a guy tries to grab a woman who's walking by, makes a crude sexual comment, or just keeps talking when a woman isn't interested, that the woman's feelings might escalate and she'll respond negatively.
You can watch what works and what doesn't right in front of your own eyes.
This will start to reprogram your mind that women don't usually "reject" men, even in the most intense situations where they're being approached all night.
2) Start small.
If you have to, start by talking to women who are paid to talk to you. Go to a mall (one of my favorites).
Stores in malls hire attractive young women. Walk into every store, and start conversations. Practice making eye contact.
Come up with a few jokes that you can use in any situation ("So, do you own this store? Perfect, then you won't care if I just take some things...")
Ask the salesgirls to smell your new cologne (the one you sprayed on your wrist next door) and give you her opinion.
The more you do this, the more you'll get used to starting conversations with women you don't know, and having comfortable conversations.
3) Choose one default thing for each situation.
It amazes me that guys don't think ahead. They don't plan what they're going to do. As the old saying goes "By failing to plan, you plan to fail".
You really need to figure out a default thing you can do to start a conversation with any woman, anywhere, anytime.
Once you come up with your idea, mentally rehearse it until you could do it in any situation. Then get out and do it.
As I mentioned, fear of rejection, or imagining rejection when you should be imagining success, leads to walking away.
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
Ironically, I've found that the best way to overcome my own fear of rejection was to see that it wasn't going to actually happen.
The more times I approached women and started conversations and the more I saw that women usually responded positively, the less I imagined things going wrong.
This led to a positive feedback loop of me wanting to approach more women and have more success.
Here are a few ideas for overcoming your own fear of rejection:
1) Go out to a bar, and watch men approaching women.
Take a Saturday night, and just go out alone. Find a seat at the bar where things are busy, and just watch.
Make sure you visit a place that is really busy, so you can see a lot of people interacting.
Now, pay attention.
You'll begin to pick out the guys who are approaching a lot of women, asking them to dance, buying them drinks, etc. Watch what happens.
You'll be able to see for yourself that most of the time, even if the woman isn't interested, nothing bad happens.
You'll also see that when a guy tries to grab a woman who's walking by, makes a crude sexual comment, or just keeps talking when a woman isn't interested, that the woman's feelings might escalate and she'll respond negatively.
You can watch what works and what doesn't right in front of your own eyes.
This will start to reprogram your mind that women don't usually "reject" men, even in the most intense situations where they're being approached all night.
2) Start small.
If you have to, start by talking to women who are paid to talk to you. Go to a mall (one of my favorites).
Stores in malls hire attractive young women. Walk into every store, and start conversations. Practice making eye contact.
Come up with a few jokes that you can use in any situation ("So, do you own this store? Perfect, then you won't care if I just take some things...")
Ask the salesgirls to smell your new cologne (the one you sprayed on your wrist next door) and give you her opinion.
The more you do this, the more you'll get used to starting conversations with women you don't know, and having comfortable conversations.
3) Choose one default thing for each situation.
It amazes me that guys don't think ahead. They don't plan what they're going to do. As the old saying goes "By failing to plan, you plan to fail".
You really need to figure out a default thing you can do to start a conversation with any woman, anywhere, anytime.
Once you come up with your idea, mentally rehearse it until you could do it in any situation. Then get out and do it.
Tuesday, 15 July 2008
ATM Male Female
A new sign in the Bank Lobby reads:
"Please note that this Bank is installing new Drive-through ATM machines enabling customers to withdraw cash without leaving their vehicles. Customers using this new facility are requested to use the procedures outlined below when accessing their accounts.
After months of careful research, MALE and FEMALE procedures have been developed.
Please follow the appropriate steps for your gender:
MALE PROCEDURE
1. Drive up to the cash machine.
2. Put down your car window.
3. Insert card into machine and enter PIN.
4. Enter amount of cash required and withdraw.
5. Retrieve card, cash and receipt.
6. Put window up.
7. Drive off.
FEMALE PROCEDURE
1. Drive up to cash machine.
2. Reverse and back up the required amount to align car window with the machine.
3. Set parking brake, put the window down.
4. Find handbag, remove all contents on to passenger seat to locate card.
5. Tell person on cell phone you will call them back and hang up.
6. Attempt to insert card into machine.
7. Open car door to allow easier access to machine due to its excessive distance from the car.
8. Insert card.
9. Re-insert card the right way.
10. Dig through handbag to find diary with your PIN written on the inside back page.
11. Enter PIN.
12. Press cancel and re-enter correct PIN.
13. Enter amount of cash required.
14. Check makeup in rear view mirror.
15. Retrieve cash and receipt.
16. Empty handbag again to locate wallet and place cash inside.
17. Write debit amount in check register and place receipt in back of checkbook.
18. Re-check makeup.
19. Drive forward 2 feet.
20. Reverse back to cash machine.
21. Retrieve card.
22. Re-empty hand bag, locate card holder, and place card into the slot provided.
23. Give dirty look to irate male driver waiting behind you.
24. Restart stalled engine and pull off.
25. Redial person on cell phone.
26. Drive for 2 to 3 miles.
27. Release Parking Brake.
"Please note that this Bank is installing new Drive-through ATM machines enabling customers to withdraw cash without leaving their vehicles. Customers using this new facility are requested to use the procedures outlined below when accessing their accounts.
After months of careful research, MALE and FEMALE procedures have been developed.
Please follow the appropriate steps for your gender:
MALE PROCEDURE
1. Drive up to the cash machine.
2. Put down your car window.
3. Insert card into machine and enter PIN.
4. Enter amount of cash required and withdraw.
5. Retrieve card, cash and receipt.
6. Put window up.
7. Drive off.
FEMALE PROCEDURE
1. Drive up to cash machine.
2. Reverse and back up the required amount to align car window with the machine.
3. Set parking brake, put the window down.
4. Find handbag, remove all contents on to passenger seat to locate card.
5. Tell person on cell phone you will call them back and hang up.
6. Attempt to insert card into machine.
7. Open car door to allow easier access to machine due to its excessive distance from the car.
8. Insert card.
9. Re-insert card the right way.
10. Dig through handbag to find diary with your PIN written on the inside back page.
11. Enter PIN.
12. Press cancel and re-enter correct PIN.
13. Enter amount of cash required.
14. Check makeup in rear view mirror.
15. Retrieve cash and receipt.
16. Empty handbag again to locate wallet and place cash inside.
17. Write debit amount in check register and place receipt in back of checkbook.
18. Re-check makeup.
19. Drive forward 2 feet.
20. Reverse back to cash machine.
21. Retrieve card.
22. Re-empty hand bag, locate card holder, and place card into the slot provided.
23. Give dirty look to irate male driver waiting behind you.
24. Restart stalled engine and pull off.
25. Redial person on cell phone.
26. Drive for 2 to 3 miles.
27. Release Parking Brake.
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