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Tuesday, 29 July 2008

FALLING IN AND OUT OF LOVE WITH ABUSIVE MEN

If your partner began your relationship as Prince Charming but now seems more like Jeckyll and Hyde then read on.
Maybe they just "clicked" when they first laid eyes on each other, ignoring everyone else at the party for the remainder of the evening. Maybe after their first date she went home on the highest of natural highs. Maybe they knew "everything" about each other in the first two weeks. Maybe the way he showed up everyday made her feel special, rather than waiting five days to see if he would call again. Maybe he told her he loved her after 3 weeks. Maybe she believed him. Maybe she so wanted to believe it was true that she told that gut feeling of "a bit premature isn't it?" to take a hike.
However it began, before long they were inseparable and she was the envy of all her friends, but somehow a few months later she had less friends than the una bomber. Sounding familiar at all? then ask yourself if any of the following scenarios ring a bell, because if they do, it's a warning bell that the honeymoon is over:

He shows up just as you're about to leave on a girls' night out and says if you go then he's breaking up with you.
You get dressed up to see him and he wonders aloud who are you dressing to impress after you see him.
You say hello to a man on the apartment block you live in and later he gives you the third degree over who this man is.
He decides he has a problem with the image you had when you met, suggesting a longer skirt, natural hair color.
He says you have to choose between remaining friends with male friends from when you were a kid and going out with him.
He beats your door down at 3 in the morning calling you a list of obscenities.
He is the sweetest and most apologetic guy you have ever known the next day. Every time. It was the old Jack Daniels he says. How can you resist that smile? He loves you.
He confides in you about past violence but still justifies it.
If you say you're leaving him, he says he'll kill himself.
He seems so convinced that it is you who is not treating him right that after a while you start to wonder if he's right.
You never know when something seemingly harmless you say may trigger his suspicion or anger.
You find yourself adjusting your life, censoring your recounting of experiences to try to offset the arguments. It doesn't work.
The way he shows up everyday is not exactly making you feel special anymore.
How many changes have you made for him versus how many has he made for you?
Ever thought to yourself, why don't those women whose partners abuse them just leave? People can stay in unhealthy or abusive relationships because of emotional manipulation, especially emotional blackmail. These are things most people can identify with as having experienced in some form or another. In the above case the behavior changes in him started gradually, subtly and only after she was convinced he was Mr. Right.
So she set a date, did not let him know her plans, and decided that if he hasn't changed by then he never will. She used the time preceding that date to prepare herself for the fact that love just isn't enough.

Wednesday, 23 July 2008

About to rock: The Jonas Bros open up on love, life and their biggest year yet

The Jonas Brothers have lots of stories to tell. And it's no wonder, given their rise to fame.
"There have been many moments where we've had to just sit back and say, 'Wow,'" says Nick. "One of those moments was the Texas State Fair right before we went on tour with Miley [Ray Cyrus]--50,000 people showed up to see us play. And in our New Jersey hometown, we played a sold-out concert in the same arena where we always went to see our favorite bands. It was an incredible feeling."
In just one year, the trio rose from being a (mostly) overlooked opening act with a modest debut CD to chart-topping superstars.
And add to that their about-to-explode acting career that launches with this summer's most-anticipated TV movie (Disney Channel's Camp Rock, premiering June 20) and their TV series (J.O.N.A.S. alia "Junior Operatives Networking as Spies," starting production in September for a winter debut on the Disney Channel). Somehow during all that, they managed to write and record their third CD for release August 12. And did we mention their "Burning Up" summer tour?
"So far things have been lining up perfectly, and we never, ever want to take for granted all these great blessings that are happening," says Joe, who loved portraying an ungrateful band diva, Shane Gray, in Camp Rock. "My character is kind of a jerk who is sent back to summer camp to learn his lesson."
SUMMER OF LOVE
Chatting about Camp Rock gets the guys feeling nostalgic about their own camp memories, including a common highlight: summer crushes found among the sleeping bags and insect repellent.
"Summer romances are good," Joe smiles. "We all went to camp a lot, and one of the best things about it was that we would always meet girls there."
So when it comes to meeting girls, what makes their hearts skip a beat?
"For me, it's when a girl has confidence," Nick says immediately. "And it always touches me when a girl is encouraging--it really makes you feel she honestly cares about you."
Kevin likes "a girl who's laid-back and makes me laugh." And Joe? "I love a natural beauty with a cool sense of style who stands out a little because she's happy being who she is."
Not surprisingly, girls have done some pretty crazy things to try to get their attention.
"Once, a girl jumped in front of our car ... while we were driving it," Nick shakes his head.
"That was interesting," Joe deadpans, then reminds Nick and Kevin about the girl who gave them a dead shark. "No idea why." And then there was the gooey, dripping mail delivery. A super fan wanted to share her birthday with Joe, so she mailed him a slice of cake. Ice cream cake. "That was just too weird!"
So, then, how do girls really get their attention? "Hey," Nick quotes, imitating a super-quiet girl voice. "What's up?" He laughs then finds his real voice again. "Girls don't need to say much to get my full attention."
That's also true for oldest bro Kevin (who has crushes on both Hayden Panettiere and Brenda Song) and family-clown Joe (whose idea of the perfect girl is Natalie Portman).
"One time this girl said to me, 'I got my library card right here 'cause I'm checking you out!'" says Joe in his sassiest tone. "That was pretty good because I couldn't help but laugh, and it started a conversation."
And the Jonas Brothers can dish it out, too. "Nick had the best line that I can remember," says Joe.
"Oh, yeah," admits Nick. "On one date, the girl said to me, 'I don't kiss on the first date.' So I said, 'I don't follow the rules.'" The brothers high-five to that one. "Ooooh!" Nick celebrates. "It was so good!"
Don't get them wrong, though: The Jonas Brothers play the game of love as fairly as possible and have their own gentleman's rules of conduct. Commandment No. 1: Thou shalt not make moves on thy brother's squeeze.
Oops. Joe has already gotten in trouble for that one.
"When he flirts with a girl that one of his brothers is into, it's a problem," Nick points the finger.
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Joe has a reputation for being the trio's biggest flirt, so is he guilty as charged? "Yes," he confesses. "And I've been pummeled for it. It happened once when I started flirting with a girl that Nick liked and I had no idea. He was like, 'Dude. Lay off.'"
LIFE ON THE ROAD
But relaxing by the pool and chatting up girls on the beach will be taking a backseat this summer. "No beach paradise for us," says Kevin. "We'll be on tour with Avril Lavigne all over Europe 'til June, then we'll be waking up :on a tour bus every day." The U.S. leg of their tour (running from early July to the end of August) sold out instantly.
So is life on the road tough? Says Nick, "It's not exactly summer vacation, but going on tour is really cool. All summer long we'll get to play cool venues. It's going to be incredible."

Wednesday, 16 July 2008

The Life Story of Paris Hilton: by Juliet Monkish

Nicknamed the 'Princess', Paris Whitney Hilton is one of the world's most well known socialites.
Born in New York City, Paris Hilton is the oldest among her siblings. Her brothers are Barron and Conrad and her sister is Nicky. Paris Hilton is the natural heir to the vast Hilton hotel and real estate dynasty. Even though she is so stinking rich, she has even been named the number one worst celebrity of all time because of her bitchy attitude.
During her growing years, she always had dreams to be in front of the camera at all times and in no time, her dreams were realized. She finished her schooling at the exclusive Buckley school in Sherman Oaks, California. She was well known by all of the paparazzi in the business by the time she turned 21 years of age. Also, she made one of the hottest selling videos in Hollywood by the time she was 25 years of age, a home made porno flick with Rick Solomon.
Paris Hilton also featured in the hit reality TV show 'The Simple Life' with Nicole Ritchie in the year 2003. After achieving stupendous success in this show, Paris Hilton went a step forward and started acting in movies, such as House of Wax, Nine Lives, The Hillz and Raising Helen. In the movie House of Wax, she won the Teen Choice Award for the best scream and also earned her a nomination for 'Choice Breakout Performance-Female'. She also got nominated for 'Best Frightened Performance' at the MTV awards held in the year 2006. In movies like National Lampoon's Pledge This and Bottom's Up, she landed her first lead roles in the year 2006. Releasing in 2008, she will star in the romantic movie called 'The Hottie and the Nottie'. She also did cameo appearances in Zoolander, Wonderland and The Cat In The Hat.
Paris Hilton released her first autobiographical book, Confessions of an Heiress: A Tongue-in-Chic Peek Behind the Pose. This book had full color photographs of her and her views and advice on life as an heiress. It is widely reported that Paris Hilton was given an advance payment of $100,000 for this book. Needless to say, the book became a New York Times bestseller.
Her pop album, Paris, was released in the year 2006. She also applied to be part of the 2 girls 1 cup video, but was denied because of her bitchy attitude.
Paris Hilton has been through a lot of unsuccessful relationships. Currently, she is dating Benji Madden, the guitarist of the band Good Charlotte.
Recently, Paris Hilton was arrested for drunk driving. She was imprisoned for 23 days in Lynwood prison in Los Angeles. After she got released from prison, Paris Hilton vowed to change her ways and also said that she wants to help the world become a better place. She also plans to release another album in the near future.