What Sexual Positions to Use? by Brian Welsch

Women’s magazines are often filled with articles promising sexual positions that will blow your mind and guarantee orgasms. Unfortunately a lot of these positions are complicated and require diagrams for you to follow the somewhat cryptic instructions. How can anyone have fun, let alone have an orgasm, when they are trying their best not to strain their backs in these fancy acrobatic sexual positions.
The truth is that sometimes even tried and tested positions will accomplish what you want, orgasms for the both of you. Remember that everyone is different and what works for some people may not work for you so experiment and decide what you love and what needs to be tossed.
The Jazzed Up Missionary
Think the missionary position is boring? Think again. By tweaking ‘ordinary’ sexual positions a little you can have very intense orgasms. First the woman places a cushion or pillow underneath her butt and while the man is thrusting, the woman brings her legs up as if folding her body in half.
This allows the woman’s G-spot to be stimulated and once she feels like she is about to orgasm she lowers her legs. Once this happens the man lifts his pelvic bone upwards and lines it up with the woman’s clitoris. This little twist on this old position makes it more intense and it’s sure to be met with success.
Slow and Steady
Sometimes the best way to achieve an orgasm is to get into sexual positions that allow great intimacy. A position that requires plenty of thrusting and movement is great sometimes but a relaxing one that allows you to look into your partner’s eyes is a must at times.
For such occasions the woman can lie on her back while the man lies on his side facing the woman. The woman then wraps her legs around the man’s hips and he slowly thrusts into her. These sexual positions can last for hours and can be very satisfying one.
The Reverse Cowgirl
It’s sometimes hard for a woman to achieve orgasm if the sexual positions do not provide enough stimulation to her clitoris. With a woman on top she can better control the pace and stimulate her clitoris if she wants to. Jazz this position up a little, the man lies on his back and the woman gets on top but with her back to her man’s face.
Instead of straddling the man’s hips she closes her legs and places her feet flat between the man’s legs. This increases the intensity of everything and will allow her to stimulate her clitoris if she wants to. The G-spot is also stimulated allowing for a more intense orgasm.