Wednesday, 16 July 2008

How To Achieve A Fulfilling Sexual Relationship

An active and healthy sex life is usually a source of great pleasure and enjoyment, but it can also cause a great deal of stress between couples. Even if you have a fulfilling sex life that satisfies your desires, you may still worry about how normal your relationship is compared to other couples.
A great sex life is not dependant on frequency or performance and each person will have their own definition of what constitutes a fulfilling sexual relationship. If your sex life satisfies your desires and makes you and your partner feel good you have nothing to worry about and you should not be concerned with what other people get up to in the bedroom.
Its common for couples to wonder how normal their sex life is and compare it with their friends and people they know to see if there are any differences. The problem is that there is no single definition of what a normal sex life actually is and each person will have their own opinion about it. What one person thinks is normal may not be for someone else.
With so many different cultural and religious beliefs in today's society, its impossible to define exactly what a normal sex life actually is. Couples may even disagree with each other about what a normal sexual relationship should be so its important to find a compromise that will meet each other's needs.
While the average married couple may have intercourse several times per week, it doesn't mean that this is a normal sex life that all couples should strive to achieve. Some couples may only have intercourse once per week or every few weeks, while other couples may have intercourse as many as twenty times or more per week.
A fulfilling sexual relationship should be whatever makes you happy, so it doesn't matter about the frequency and performance, as long as both you and your partner are satisfied. No matter how many times you have intercourse per week, its within the range of normal human experience and should not be considered abnormal.
We all have our own sexual fantasies and desires, but as long as they don't lead to emotional or physical discomfort they should not be a cause for concern. Achieving harmony in a relationship, both emotionally and physically, should be the first priority as this will lead to a more fulfilling and satisfying sex life between you and your partner.

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